I am obsessed with this two-tone burgundy dress. This colour is so hot for fall! For date night, you can wear this with just a bandeau or black bra if you're feeling daring, but if you want to class it up, just layer with a black cami. Or, you can even add a black turtleneck and thigh-high boots to feel extra bundled but still sexy. Lace is still very popular, and men love the subtle sexiness to it. Even adding a pop of lace in a subtle way such as on your blazer or a trim on your shirt can be just the little touch to kick up your look. Fall colours like plum, wine, olive green or brown can be fun takes on the trend as well.
2. Work your fave dark denim!
Do you ever contemplate what you're gonna wear for hours on end, only to go "Ah, screw it. I feel best in my broken-in skinnies". You know, dark denim is highly underrated. It can do amazing things to your sexy date outfit if you let it. Wearing a simple dark pair of jeans actually allows you to go big with your other pieces. Get out the curling iron and do a big updo, rock that bold fuschia lipstick, wear that multi-coloured statement necklace, don the show-stopping backless top - I don't mean all at once! - because your dark blue jeans aren't doing all the talking. Let's face it, if you feel hot in them already, they will make you exude the confidence needed to pull off any other bold piece. And they go with any pair of shoes.
3. Be edgy - as sublty as you want
Let's look at our girl RiRi: she's the queen of being edgy and looking sexy. She rocks zippered bustier tops with flirty polka dots, she loves to do bold colours and rock rips on her denim, and she loves S&M-inspired jewelry. I'm not saying go out dressed as a dominatrix or be as bold as Rihanna is, but try one or more of these to add youthful fun to your date outfit: Rock some high-waisted ripped denim shorts with a long sleeved top and tights, wear a neutral jeans-and-tank outfit with suspenders (either hanging down or worn), decorate your forearm with colourful chunky bangles mixed with spikey ones, or rock a cute cropped sweater in a bold colour and pair with menswear trousers. Voila, you're a sex kitten!
4. The "morning after" look
No, not the "walk of shame" look where your makeup looks like crap and you have dragon breath. I mean those mornings when you stayed at your man's place without a change of clothes and you gotta work some of his pieces on your sexy petite frame. I think that super feminine looks could always use a little touch of menswear inspiration. Try a long off-the-shoulder simple tunic with your fave shorts and nude pumps, add lace-up mid-calf boots with your summer floral print dress, or rock your man's long sleeved button-up with a skinny belt just under your bust, with some shorts or skinnies. Trust me, men also love the look of a woman wearing his things - it makes them think of waking up and seeing you in his boxers. Rawr.
5. Thigh-high socks
When I first got a pair, I was a little scared to rock them in different ways. Now, I realize they are so versatile and great to add to a hot look. Try wearing an all-black ensemble with socks in another colour (a turtleneck dress or black romper looks great), throw them on with a wrap dress with similar colours, or wear them with a classy A-line mini skirt and blouse. Can't go wrong. Just try and keep the socks in a neutral colour and without a pattern, because that can look juvenile.
Hope that helped some of you make up your mind! Happy date night.














