Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Your Girls Got Your Back

I just watched the last couple episodes of the last season of Sex and the City. When Carrie said she was moving to Paris and her friends and her had a moment where they shed a tear, it reminded me of when I told my friends I was going out of town to school. I know it's not the same, but nevertheless, it made me see how important friendship is in our lives.

We've all had moments where we neglect our friends for some guy. I've done that to the most extreme level with my ex-boyfriend. I will NEVER let that happen again. After it was all done with, I realized how important friends are and how stupid I was for ever forgetting that.

Men come and go. We love to see them come, hate to see them go. During the whole process, your girlfriends (or gay friends) are there for you. They know you better than you know yourself at times. Loving someone blinds you at times, I mean. Your friends are there to clear up the fog.

I've been feeling pretty lonely in the dating world lately. Sometimes all I can think about is how I desperately want someone to be there for me to share all my moments with. Honestly, after I watched the SATC girls, I realized I already have people like that in my life. My best friends know me inside out. They love me for who I am and that will never change. The same cannot be said for any man out there.

Here's to remembering the significance of friendship and its profound effects on our lives!

Toodles

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